finding  the right man in your life is not always easy,  just like being married is not always  easy either , i guess taking it one day at time,an let the love flow more then ever, will accomplish in the long run, waiting for that special someone in your life is worth the wait, it can take years in finding the right person that will be your soul mate, not everyone is meant for one another we are all different, it don't take over night to love some body it can take a life time of experience to trust an being faithful to those who love you with in there self,

 first of all, a mans love is like you love them for them not what they accomplished in life,  loving the man of your heart people say its easy, its not, you got to learn to trust an honor an treat him with respect, love an care, as he would do for you,  not everyone is experienced with love, it can take many things in life to trust a mans heart, or even a women heart for that fact, , learning to trust some one is hard most of the time,, if you experienced a bad relationship, in your past , its hard to trust another person in your life,, for the way you been treated through your life, with the experience we have learned not to fall in the same trap twice in your lifetime,

sometimes it don't take much to get turned of from your partner or love or with any relationship. for what you or any one had or went through,you take the hard times ,with the bad  times,  the most hateful times an combine them in one, it learns you  to hate that person for what they put you through  to make your life a living hell.  but most of the time we don't forget what we been through but we forgive those with in you,, but that don't always work ,you give them many chances in life for them to prove to you that they have changed, but in the long run they don't change at all, it gets worst  as each day passes you by,

to take fewer faults in your life,,never live in the fear that you can make your life scared  an feel trapped an lone in this world .the only fear you face is death,, let fear, fear its self, learn to fight back in what you believe in that you can make your life lot better by changing your life style an the way your life is. its not easy,but we try an do whats best in life to make things better with ease, it causes pain hurt an alone when things are upside down in your world, but we get through those hard times, with a little help from family an friends, we take each day an live to the best of our knowledge, an learn by the mistakes we make in life,

its a tough world but we make it  , with the ins an outs of everything in life, things changes with time, only if you desired it to be that way, life don't change its self, it needs a helping hand of your self to go along with it, it takes more or less two  to mingle, like it takes one person to become single, thats life we face an go through every day, no one is perfect we all make mistakes in life no matter who we are I wouldnt be the first one to be in this situation, there is lot more in similar or maybe worst then what I'v been through, but we need to change things for the better to be happy in life,, no matter what way we go about things in life  your past still haunts you for long period of time, but it gets better over time,

through help of another love in your life to make things right for you,,never take a man for granted an never let him  take you for granted an let him or her use you for slave mistreated hateful. unfaithful, being dishonest toward you things can not change with so many problems to face in life,only you can make that decision in life to be happy no one else can decide this for you but only you , let each day take its ride take every day of your life an  try to be happy ,move on to better way of living an being strong  an keeping the faith to believe in your self with a little courage to face the world as it comes natural, take pride in your self that your lot better then they are, an move on an be happy as long as you stay strong, i been years with a bad experience of everything not one day goes by i still face those bad things, then i find other way to fix things,  but as you get older. things sometimes change for the better in your life,, with less stress an the trouble we burden in life, i guess as we get older not same as we where teenagers, I guess we do little bit of growing up for once uh,,

Always take time for your self an believe in your self an have the confidence in your self, that your a person with love an respect an care for those who care about you ,  that only you can do this, no one else can make your life better But your self, ,the ones that matter in your life are the ones who love you the most, an the ones who don't matter will not matter at all, take each day as a new step in your life to become happy no one needs to be unhappy when happiness is in your future, true facts people when you experienced things you can write things, when you write things , you can fix things, once you fix things, your life brings you New happy things, A NEW  MAN ! hahahaah

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