Controlling the way your life  the way it should be an not to be, takes time of everything, never put your life on a stand still  for anyone who don't matter to you,your life an heart an soul comes first,,one major priority in your life is to never give up for what you believe in to make you happy an living the life you want to have an controlling it the way you want it to be with the happiness you wish to share, lots of things come in my mind  for the happiness people want an choose to create the life as they desire it to be happy, but i can not make everyone happy,or make decisions for them only help when i can,,but only give those advice who really need it from the experience i have been through my self,each step you make in your life leads you to a another chapter in your life of who you are and what you stand for, being the person that stands with in you, taking control for what you believe in  compromising the troubles we bare each day an coping with hard things an bad things that arise in our every day life,

We learn those major factors as we accomplished them day by day,taking  stress in your life, No one needs it not you not me not any one,   But we all cant go through life with out some kind of stress hanging over our heads from time to time, don't let the burdens come with in you lets those burdens Burden its self,taking one step at a time, with your every day in life, not many of us can cope with the hardship that arise in us each day, take break leave the stress behind you take trip an what not, but still we have to face it all when we come back to those troubles, It's Like it never leaves us it keeps repeating its self, time an time again until something has to be done to fix it, while fixing things take look around you what u can lose an not lose, is it worth the troubles leaving everything in life  to start a new one only if its going to  make you happy,Until then, live the life you want to have, if you want trouble stay into it, if not, move out of it, 

You have a choice in life to do what  your heart desires  to do to makes you happy, Its not we cant choose the life you want you have to choose whats best for your self, not others choose it for you, If you feel love for another person in your life, It's normal to feel that in most of us, it happens every day to couples an married families i'm sure, But make sure that's what you want, you go through life with one and end up with another, is it the right thing to do or is it not the right thing ,well that's for you to choose that way of life, we all do what our hearts desires in life to bring the happiness we want to make us  happy, as long as you choose the right decision in life Its ok,

But think before you jump into something you may not be ready for, making a mistake the first time its ok but doing it the second time around, well,we learn from the first mistakes don't we, so we take life in stride as an every day thing, we burdens the hardship an lets go of what is not good for us, an then start a new life of another to make life a bit better then what we had,  from the first time, i guess learning from experience every day of my life  has bought me feeling the way i do toward life its self, be who i am not what others want me to be or make me out to be, I'm my own boss  no one lives it but me,Just take every day as every other day, work on the small things then work on the big things, if that don't work them its time to move on to better life of happiness,

Love grows stronger within all of us even when its letting go of your life with your first love, as each day grows stronger with love, never just let one person fail you, keep the strength an faith an good will that God is the only one who can judge you, not others judge it for  you,

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