something i like to make clear to people as  being a single mum with 3 lovely daughters. its not in my mind to be in any relationship with anyone, even tho i have had lot of offers to go out with guys my age an lot of younger ones, am not being rude  or anything, I just buried my husband an im not ready for anything in my life only raise my children  for now, if u wants to be just friends an go for a coffee or something not a problem but getting involved in any kind of relationship im not ready for this, who knows i may never be ready for this, Just after losing my husband with so much going on in my life from the past to the future, there is a time an place for everything , time is everything an its not even in the cards to be part of another relationship so soon, i know my husband is gone an i wont forget him but i know life still moves on, but going out with guys at this time, sorry its not even in my mind to do that, if someone wants to drop by an see me an go for coffee thats ok but thats far as it will go for me for now, just not ready to take another partner in my life just after losing my husband, . my children are my life they will come first with every thing in my life,  this is my main concern an wil be for long long time, sorry guys, i hate to turn you down but thats how it goes for now, i need to straighten out my life of being on my own with my children first an then take each day an cope with losing my husband, then take it from there an see what will happen in the future, no one knows what i been though in my personal life an the last days of his days with  only but my children, an close family an some friends  know what i have been through., but right now its not the time to ask me out, just wants to be to my self with my kids for while, which i know people will understand how life an how it goes with the losing of my husband , i just ain t ready for another relationship with anyone,  sorry.