Don't settle! Guard your heart -because it's the most precious thing to you- and everyone does not deserve to hold on to it.unless there being honest with you, getting hurt, us ladies does not deserve this in life, at least be honest with your true loving heart, not lie an cheat behind her back. its the worst thing anyone can do to hurt his lady, it just makes us not want to trust them at all .. its the same goes for a guy as well. always be honest with him no matter what it takes, honesty is the best policy if your not happy cause you like to cheat an lie why be in a relationship to hurt him or her , no one sais you have to be into this you both are getting hurt, is it worth it, NO.... its not,, live your life to be happy no matter if you only stay single, its not the end of the world if you have to do that,,an you wouldnt be the first to do that, what ever brings joy an happiness in your life go for it life is only short why not enjoy it while it lasts , we are all put in this world to love someone,even if its loving your self.listen to Gods words,love is a giving thing why not share it with someone who honestly loves you an respects you for you..cheating an lying doesn't get you any place but,but hurt an pain , why put yourself into this, everyone deserves to be happy why not let it be you,,an never judge someone from the mistakes they have made in the past ,an never bring up what is the most horrible times you had back then it will only cause more trouble in your relationship to be unhappy let the past go .love them as they today not what has happen before this..life ahead of you is what matters.way let the past destroy you . move on forget about it, people will be much happier if they did,,we all have a past why let it come between us,, an never judge them if they done something .wrong there is always two sides an maybe three sides to every story, an never worry about what others think , if you feel in your heart that two people are meant to be together let it be, never let anyone destroy what you both have cause its not worth it,as long as you both are happy is all that matters the out side world doesn't matter when it comes to happiness, its what you both feel is what counts,so let the best part of you, love for what you both deserve , its not for what others what to judge,, to destroy what you both what to share to be happy. happiness is everything, give it your best shot, an be happy no matter what life brings you,, — feeling loved by you an only you! I LOVE YOU BABY