Hi there! 

I learned in life how you can be very close as siblings growing up, but the little things in life will tear you apart. My sister will swear up and down I never had kids.  It was a pigment of my imagination even though the scars still remain on my body and I have no kids with my name on their birth certificates. Understand this is not a rant about how I can't stand my sister.  It is about the things in life your sibling will never understand you did for them and yet you no longer call eachother family! The last words I ever said to my guardian is she should understand we are all grown and it makes perfect sense my sister is ready for marriage.  I let her mother know if she didn't agree to the marriage...she might loose her relationship with my sister.  Okay I look like the bad sibling and of course nobody invites me to the wedding because I am such a terrible sibling.  I hate to be the barrier of bad news but her older brother here has kids and yes I am the mamma and daddy because I am a third gender. Get over it!