Respect The Person Who Loves You So Much ( Your Partner )

when a man who really loves you always respect him an never hurt his beautiful heart, cause once you disrespect your man they lose trust an faith into you , for the lack of respect you give them ,that can work both ways also, for women if a man being disrespected to her then they lose trust faith an honesty in that relationship. as we get older we learn not to hurt one another it takes time to build trust in someone, an we learn that being disrespectful while earning that trust takes time it just dont happen over night, it can easily cause serious problems in a relationship if a person is not being trusted,

so we build up this trust by talking about things that may cause other things to cause a person not to trust you, if you have horrible past leave it behind you that is one of those most horrible things your partner can bring up to u is your past an same goes for a women, what ever happened in the past leave those memories behind if not its going to haunt you for the rest of your life, an it will cause problems in a new relationship.

when we find some one new in our lives we learn we do things together go places together go out to candle light supper or dinner spend as much time as you can with them let them get the feeling what your all about let them see what your true heart is made up of, just cause we have one bad relationship in life or more that dont mean the next one is going to do the same everyone is quite different for who they are , its how they treat you with kindness love you an care an trust you an respect you ,

choosing to be different then others is a wise choice in life to make we choose to be different cause the way we get treated from the past, life changes all the time, if u stay the same person as you were an be the person who wants to be cruel an things then things dont change it cause fiction in a relationship. but choose what fits your heart to make it lot better then what you had in life but not change the person who u always was.

having a perfect relationship no there is no perfect relationship with anyone as far as that goes we try to make perfect but no one is perfect in this world, we all have our flaws an what not, even tho we choose to be the better person we still have worries an troubles along with it, its what you want in life to make things better not to be perfect but be ok enough that what you had in the past you do not have it in the next relationship . cause if u choose that way in life no one would be happy, as i see it wont, we start of fresh , live for today not tomorrow, tomorrow can change the world so fast with out knowing it,

so there are steps we take in life to make it good, i can reassure that in a new relationship if it starts of good, then you may be fine, but getting to know the other person your with takes time an lots of time to build up the trust an honest an respect in that person, where i come from life wasnt easy im not the first person to say that an good many say that, but we put what we had the past behind us an move on we try to but not always work some times, its how your partner treats u if the treats u differently then they treated others then it may work,

every relationship today is totally different its more on the go, an everything is different then years ago, so as life is different then what we had we change to, but for the better, we dont live in the past life for what others done to make us unhappy we live for the future an what lays head of us to be happy, its not easy if u had a horrible past i cant say i had it all bad in life we have good times an worst of times to saddest time we all mostly do, but we learn from this not let it happen no more in life we choose to be happy an loves those who love u the best treat them well get long if not talk about the things that cause the problems in a relationship or in a home its always away to fix things, if they cant fixed it see counselling if that dont work move on in life an find better

if someone's relationship is not working whos fault is it oif they dont seak help its there own fault cause there help out there im sure it is,but there is one thing we dont do is disrespect others, an hurt them we learn to love them for who they are if they treating you right why hurt them or disrespect them we have no reason to do that . an why hurt someone who we all love so much as your partner, its lot who do that but im not one of them im to soft hearted to hurt anyone, just so ya know, when a person have a horrible life that dont mean they going to be like this in the next one everyone is so different ,

we all get shit on an crapped on from time to time but thats life we deal with an we learn from it the next person may never be like your first one or the second one either for that fact people change an change for many reasons to make life better then they had it, i know what others say we all have ups an downs an ins an outs of everything in life, i been there my self but that dont mean in new relationship is going to happen like that, its quite different for how that other person treat you, life is changing but in this world we live in we dont change to pls the world its self, u change for your self not for others to judge you in anyway possible , life gets better with respect love an care an honesty an loyalty if you dont have that in a person then your lone in this world , cause we all like to be respected , loved an cared for not give lack of respect to hurt someone's heart or feelings for who they love, thats being disrespectful which i can never do to anyone,

love the person you love the most give them your heart an show the world what your really made of, love is a beautiful thing once you lose it its no getting it back, cause we lose trust an faith n honesty in the person we love the most, so take advice from someone who knows been there done that now im happy with a man who loves me an respects me an wants to give me the world with him why destroy it, never in this lifetime, will i hurt him cause he is my life now through everything an make the best of it we love one another so very much to build up this trust honesty an respect in our relationship even to get married , cause we truly fell in love with one another he is my heart an soul an our love is growing stronger every day, i love you normy thank you for being part of my life, with me an our gals, we love you very much honey xoxo